Do you ever feel down because someone has made a careless throwaway remark about you, or even been intentionally cruel, either to your face or in speaking behind your back?
Maybe you have felt elated because someone complimented you in some way? Whether they have been nasty or nice, it is important to remain yourself and not to change unless you yourself feel that change would be for the better for you!
Your worth does not depend on others’ views and feelings about you. You are worth it. You are beautiful just as you are.
It means being content and self-assured about who you are and what you want from life. And if you are this, you will also have a strong self-image. Being positive defines how you approach life and your expectations of what you will be and what you will achieve. Very often this can be reflected in your job, your sporting efforts and your business and personal relationships. Others are drawn to positive people, because they have the ability to lift our spirits and make us feel good about ourselves and our lives.
Someone with a positive attitude will have a buoyant outlook on life, they believe in themselves, their capabilities and talents and this opens them to seeing opportunities that come their way. They float over troubles, or like a rubber ball, bounce back again if they fall, as difficulties will not seem as significant and they have the ability to cope with them effortlessly. They are happier, healthier and more energetic.
Attitude, whether positive or negative, is infectious so choose to spend your time with positive uplifting people. When you choose to live your life with a positive attitude you will reach those lucky crossroads more often, the ones where opportunity and preparation meet.
Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity. Seneca