How to build a positive attitude?
The kinds of attitude we wear/learn in our childhood become the integral part of our personality. Therefore it is really very important to build and learn positive attitude since childhood. Does it mean that if a person is having negative or bad behavior/attitude cant change? No it is not so - individuals can work on their attitudes and build a pleasant personality by leaning some basic rules.
1) Know the basic principles of building a positive attitude.
2) Have a strong – will – power to change your bad habits and adopt new good habits.
3) Follow discipline and commitment to work on basic principles.
Who is responsible for our attitude?
Education, experience and environment make our attitude, but being a responsible and intellectual person we are responsible for our attitude. Human being has to accept responsibilities in his life time, and when he is unable to do his duties, he claims on other person and circumstances not on himself.
“People with negative attitude blame their parents, teachers, government, society and system for their failures.”
Be a person who accepts responsibilities, and complete his duties. Follow your dreams, accept honesty, loyalty and respect and be the inspiration for others. Be a positive finder, change your thinking process and look for the positive everywhere in every circumstance. An individual should focus on good and positive things around himself. Actually human nature is habitual of finding faults in others rather than faults in themselves. People looking for faults will find them in heaven also. In the same way if the individuals looking for happiness, success and prosperity will get them also.
There are some people who always find faults in others and in every circumstance. This person does not care whether the thing is right or wrong, their work is to find out faults in persons or circumstances. They are “professional criticizers”. They act like there is a competition going on who will find maximum faults.
You will find these kinds of negative people all around in your office, family and peer groups. These kinds of person always find faults in others all the time and complain that everything around them is so bad. These kinds of people are “energy suckers”. Their thoughts and thinking process makes others feel unhappy and sad. So always stay away from people with bad attitude.